When you talk to lot of youth
about what they want to do in life, what are their professional goals? Lot of
them will tell you that they want to get educated and be placed on a proper
job. If you ask after that, they will say foreign deployment or very few will
say they might start their own business. Few of them will join their family
business and that’s it. The thought of doing something on their own first of
all comes to very few individuals. Out of those only handful of them will
actually try and rest will live their life just dreaming.
Risk – Whenever you want to start
something new out of the league there is a huge risk involved. Not everyone has
guts to take that risk and do something new. The fear of failure comes before
the thought of success. If you will think about failure you can’t do it. It’s
good to be practical but you have to trust yourself, your calibre and instinct.
Society – I hate Indian society
mentality. What is your son/daughter doing? What she will do after studies? Oh
why she joined such a small organization? She should work in MNC? What he wants
to do his own business? Is he mad and why are you not guiding him right? These
are the typical questions which almost every parent and child face. People have
such a bad habit to probe in our lives.
Parents pressure – Lot of Indian
parents have a lot to say regarding personal or professional decision of their
children. Ohh you want to opt commerce? No, no you should opt for medical. Why
you don’t want to do engineering or medical? How you will get a good job? What you
will do in your life with a normal graduation degree? Trust me I have seen lot
of kids giving up their passion just because their parents want them to do
something else. Parents never speak to their kids about getting education and
run a business. They want their kids to get better jobs. For lot of them if you
want to start business you don’t need to be educated. This is the worst thing
that can happen to any country. Parents should give space to their children. I
feel very lucky in this case that my parents have never interfered in my
decisions. Me and my sisters were allowed to do whatever we want to do in our
lives.
Work – There is no surety that if
you start a business and it will work. Suppose an engineering graduate starts
his own business. Devotes two years and somehow he failed to succeed. Now he
wants to join a job he won’t get job interview call. Because he is not a
fresher that has recently graduated. Lot of interviewers look down upon you if
you tried to do your own thing and failed. This is what we call sick mentality. Again this fear that if I fail I won't even get a decent job refrains lot of youth not to take risks. We don't even have social security system that will support us if we are job less.
I know and understand that all
these problems exist. But if you are determined just take a leap. Even if you
fail you will never regret that you didn’t even try.
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Megha Gupta
We are currently in a generation which is sandwiched between broad minded and narrow minded people. Whatever step we take it either hurts us or our parents. One has to lay low. Till this thing is going on India won't have Steve Jobs, Bill gates, or Mark Zuckerberg instead it will have CEOs who work for the above mentioned people. LOL!
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